Ellie's Blog

 Hi Friends! This is a whinge turned public announcement. In list form, because that's how I roll.  How To NOT Get a First (or second) Date With an Escort ... or maybe just me, I can't speak for everyone. I feel like I say all this a lot - sorry not sorry... but seriously why is this still happening? Read the ad, read the website. It's really not hard, and usually it has the information you are looking for. There's going to be pretty pictures, make sure to take a look, but don't get so distracted that you forget to read the provider's information. Key things to look out for are; their availability, fees, location and services they offer. Once you know these details, you can use it to make an enquiry. Which brings me to my next point... Make a proper enquiry. I see it all the time on Twitter especially. Providers are getting tired of "You avail now?", "How much?", "Where are you located?", "Do you offer XYZ?" . Note how

Hi friends! With the permission of a wonderful regular client of mine, I've decided to write about one of our soft domme sessions for you. Please note that her name has been changed for privacy reasons, and this story is not necessarily typical of this kind of session. Simone is a gorgeous, confident woman in her early 40s. She's a soft and curvy size 16 - with hips to die for. She has shoulder length sandy blonde hair and big blue eyes. She's also quite a bit taller than me. She arrives at my door, with that cheeky grin across her face. I welcome her in, greeting her with a smile and a kiss. We always begin with the formalities - she knows the routine - hands me an envelope, health check then I put her in the shower and head downstairs for her.  I'm wearing my black velvet dress, fishnets, no panties, matched with shiny red heels. I start making myself a coffee while I wait. Today, she came down to meet me in a silky red bra and a black g string. No shoes. Her chore fo

Hi Friends. I have had quite a few enquiries over the last year or so in regards to mentoring, so I wanted to quickly write up a blog post about it. Firstly, I'm more than happy to help anyone break into the industry, and I mean anyone. This is the type of job that anyone can do. Clients want all kinds of people; there is a demand for all genders, nationalities, weight, height, looks, age (legal age and above), tattoos and other body mods, long hair, shaved heads, it doesn't matter. There are clients who want lots of make up, goths, no makeup, country girls, grannies, the list goes on and I'm sure you get the idea.  In this industry, you have the ability to choose who you want to be, and who you want to market for. We also have the ability to "re-brand" that is, change our names, who we are, what we look like, our rates and what services we offer. If you start off marketing yourself as a high end call girl, but decide it's not for you and you want to become mo

This comes up a lot for me, as I will always ask you for a photo of your license and your mobile number to confirm a booking.  I'm going to keep this short and to the point so it's really clear as to you why I need your information.  My Security You will be entering my home or incall and my body. My safety and security is extremely important to me. People who provide their ID are less likely to hurt, abuse, rob or stalk me. I will be able to take this information to the police if necessary, in order to protect myself. If you don't have bad intentions, you have nothing to worry about. Screening I use your information in certain databases, generally looking for a history of assault. Again, if you have no violent history, you're probably good to go.  How I Store Your Info Your information is always stored securely, and in most cases deleted after our booking. It is only ever seen by me - unless something terrible happens, in which case I'll pass this information on to

Hey Friends! Here is a quick list I've compiled for clients (or potential clients) of escorts.  DO read the escorts online profiles / advertisement / website.  All of it. Properly. Don't just skim through it and assume you know all the details. Every provider is different - we have different rates, services, require different things for screening, some work particular hours, some require deposits - I can go on and on, you get the picture. DON'T ask your providers for a discount. Sometimes, people don't always see what exactly goes into a booking. It takes time to prepare for a booking, even if you're only visiting for 15 minutes. We need to make sure our incall is spick and span; cleaning, sanitising, bedding, washing, vacuuming, mopping, cleaning the toilet etc. As well as ensuring the location is perfect, we spend time making sure we look the part - showering, shaving, blow-drying our hair, doing our hair, make up, finding the perfect outfit. If you require any sp

 Hey Friends! One thing I'm really passionate about is peer support and education.  I've had a few people come to me recently to see if I can assist them to enter and re-enter the industry. Of course, I was more than happy to help get them started.  I've been around for a long while, and it's crazy how the industry keeps changing! There are new ways to advertise, new ways to screen, new ways to pay, and even new ways to work - like Onlyfans! It can be hard to keep up with the changes, especially if you used to do something one way years prior, but it's not as effective now - or worse, not available (think Backpages). I've discovered a bunch of tips and tricks over the years, in many different areas of sex work. I can't list them here for the obvious reason that this blog isn't only read by sex workers or future sex workers. A lot of our knowledge is tightly held secrets, this is important for our own safety and security. There are things that sex workers